What do all of these people have in common? Each of them have come (or about to come) to Houston to visit with the youth and leaders of my stake. What an awesome month and a half we have had! It was so uplifting to sit at the feet of Sister Elaine Dalton, General Young Women's President of my church and hear her advice to help strengthen young women today.
Here are a few things she spoke about...
"Don't feel like the donkey hanging up high with the cart tipped backwards. Don't get so caught up in your calling that you neglect yourself and your family."
"Don't be cynical, this is where the adversary wants us to be. He knows what time it is and he is prepared to fight."
"In the latter days, we will have angels and God's power to be around us and to bear us up."
"Help your young women be worthy to make and keep sacred covenants. The Lord put a 'spotlight' on the value of virtue and saved it for the latter days."
"Use everything you learn in your YW calling to strengthen your family."
"As a yw leader, dress modestly and also be modest in your heart and in your actions. Don't be loud, rough or opinionated. Be soft and modest in your actions. The world has enough rough and loud women, what the world needs is more loving, gentle and kind women."
"We must be spiritually prepared leaders! Don't neglect your morning and evening prayers. Read from the holy scriptures daily. Take good care of yourself and your family. Listen to the Holy Spirit."
"Whatever the Lord asks, he will prepare a way for it to work out."
"Two critical things to do with your young women... Love them and help them to feel the Spirit DAILY."
"The youth today are living in enemy territory, help your youth to feel the Spirit every day."
"Good people of the world are looking for good -- Arise and Shine Forth that thy light may be a standard for the nations. Now is the time to stand for what is right."
"Make your home a strength, a place of refuge from the storms of life. Give your children a safe place from the world. When your kids walk in the door from school, make your home feel different than the world. Make it feel like heaven."
"As youth leaders, be REAL. The youth watch everything you do, they notice everything about you. Be real!"
"Put your family first and then your calling."
"Repent daily-- that's Personal Progress. Tell your YW if they make a mistake, that's okay. Tell them they can repent, make changes, and don't be afraid to go to the Bishop. Remind the Bishop to have interviews with the youth. If they have a friendship with one another, it makes it easier for the youth to talk to the bishop when they make mistakes and need to repent, or even if they just need to talk to someone."
"If a YW begins to fade away or stop coming to church, talk to her or go visit her. Don't give up on your YW. You are part of the rescue. Act on promptings, the Spirit will guide you, and tell you what to say."
"Personal Progress is never ending, do it daily."
Katherine Nelson the actress who portrayed Emma Smith in the movie, "Emma Smith, My Story" spoke to our stake young women this past Saturday! What a great experience for all of us.
This Sunday John Bytheway will be coming to speak to the youth of our stake. We have tried for the past several months to get him to come speak to our youth. Finally, all of the stars aligned and he was available to come! The youth were so excited when we announced at youth conference that he was coming to see THEM! Talk about a lot of screams and shouts. Just loved, LOVED surprising the youth with that announcement.
Side Note: April 23, 2012 We had the Jon Bytheway fireside last night! It was awesome. He spoke for an hour and 15 minutes. The kids (and adults) were mesmerized. He was funny, spiritual and just an all around wonderful person. So grateful he came to speak to our youth of the Cypress Texas Stake!
Picture below: Brenda Smith (Stake YW Secretary), Kim and John Bytheway, Leanne Lauck (Stake YW President) and me! (Not pictured: Diana Gunderson, Stake YW 2nd Counselor)
Caitlin (right) and Courtney with John.
The black sheep is saying,"Excuse me! Excuse me! Excuse me!"
John Bytheway: "What can you tell me about the black sheep?" Student: "He must know something"